When Emotional Reactions Take Over

When Emotional Reactions Take Over

Many couples are surprised to discover that the intensity of their arguments is not always about the issue they are discussing. A small disagreement can suddenly trigger feelings of rejection, abandonment, criticism, or not being valued. These reactions can escalate...
When Personality Differences Create Conflict

When Personality Differences Create Conflict

One of the most common yet overlooked sources of conflict in relationships is personality difference. People think differently. They process information differently. They interpret situations differently. One partner may want to talk through emotions immediately,...